Am I Sexy Enough To Be A Swinger?

In my time in the lifestyle, I’ve met many different kinds of people, to say the least. I’ve met teachers, nurses, and exotic dancers. I’ve met lawyers and stay-at-home moms. I’ve met construction workers, vets, office workers; web designers… the list could go on forever. One of the things you’ll realize soon after you enter the lifestyle is that it contains all different kinds of people, and we come in all ages and all shapes and sizes. So if you’re concerned that swinging isn’t for you because you won’t fit the profile, you’re mistaken. Everyone fits the profile, and I guarantee you if you attend local swinger events you will see people who look just like you.

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How To Talk To Your Partner About Swinging

So you think you want to be a swinger, but you’re not sure how to bring the topic up to your partner. You’re worried about upsetting them, or that they won’t understand why you want to do this. Well, we’ll get to the talk in a minute, but before you’re ready to have that discussion there are some things you need to think about.

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Swinger Etiquette - A Guide

Sometimes people get into the lifestyle and get frustrated right away because they aren’t getting any results. They haven’t had any luck hooking up with couples, they’ve met a few but haven’t been called back or aren’t getting responses to their emails. They wonder, “Is it us?” Well, here’s a few tips on how to behave in a lifestyle situation so you won’t have to ask yourself that question.

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Privacy For Swingers On The Internet??

There are two common misconceptions about the lifestyle that many new couples begin with, and although opposite in nature, both misconceptions can be harmful. Many are afraid to enter the lifestyle, are afraid to post pictures, afraid to attend parties, because they believe the second they meet someone they know in the real world they will be outed and fired from their job, or suffer other negative consequences. The fact is that real swingers will almost never out you because they are in the same boat you are! If you see someone from work at a lifestyle party, they can’t very well go tell your boss on Monday, can they? They were at the same party! Not to mention they would never be allowed back into that party again once you told the owner – so they have more to lose than you! The truth is that as long as you are careful and reveal your identity only to those you are sure are real swingers with an identity of their own to protect you stand very little chance of being found out in the “real world”.

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Swinger/Lifestyle Glossary Of Terms

Ever been reading a profile on a swingers site and you see a phrase or a term that you do not understand...such as BBW, BDSM, Back Door, Bi-Accepting, DP, D&D free, Fetish, or Full Swap?

Ever feel like there needs to be a dictionary for swingers...or at least a glossary of terms? Well now there is!

Wicked Garden has created a Glossary of swingers terms. You can read it here:

Wicked Garden's Swinger/Lifestyle Glossary

Tips For A Single Female In The Lifestyle

Checking out the lifestyle can be intimidating for a single, since it is primarily about couples. As a single female, you’ll find if you simply post a profile and a few pictures to a swinger’s website, you’ll soon be receiving emails every day from interested couples. The number of options you have to choose from can be overwhelming! As a single female, I’m sure there are two main things are wondering as you consider the lifestyle – 1) is it right for me? 2) Is it safe for a single woman? I’m going to attempt to cover both these topics – safety in swinging and what to expect as a single female in the lifestyle.

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A Great Swinger/Lifestyle FAQ

Okay, you finally made the jump to walk on the wild side. Maybe you have been to a few Swinger Clubs or Parties. Maybe you have met some other Swingers, hung out and had a great time. That is great! I would like to be the first one to congratulate you on officially being a Swinger. Maybe you are new to this, but are still very interested. Whatever the level you are at, you still might have some questions that need to be answered. Where do you go with those questions? Who can you ask? My name is Marissa. I have been in the lifestyle for 5 years. I have a wonderful husband who is in this with me every step of the way. We have been married for 10 years. We are both committed to each other but we have decided to spice up our sex life with swinging. I have always been asked for my opinion on various topics by both newbies and regular swingers. The following is a list of questions that have been asked. If you have a question, it can be anything at all, please email me at marissa@wickedgarden.com. I look forward to reading your questions. Please understand that all of the answers are based on my experiences within the lifestyle in the past 5 years. I am by no means an expert, if you disagree with whatever I have said, I am sorry. I do not want to offend, hurt or upset anyone. With that said, please read and enjoy. I hope that I have all of the answers that you are looking for.


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